Sunday, June 12, 2016

Halfway Reflection


  1. Tenacious Competency
    • I released inhibitions about approaching people and removed the fear of rejection and failure notion from my mindset.
    • I began to hang out at Starbucks more frequently to gauge when more of my target customers visited this establishment.
    • I developed a schedule to complete the assignments. I constantly read the books required for the reading assignments to finish that portion of the class ahead of time. This enabled me more time to focus on conducting interviews for the weekly assignments. I usually comment on Blog posts early in the week, complete written tasks (such as this one) early to mid-week, and conducted interviews towards the end of the week to gain insight from the lectures.
  2. Tenacious Attitude
    • I never felt like giving up as I already had a tenacious mindset. From the start of my enrollment, I have set a goal for myself to not drop any class nor not complete any assignment. Once I'm in I'm all in.
    • There was some trepidation early on as I did not feel I was very good at approaching people and asking for interviews. I removed that fear from my mentality fairly early on and kept telling myself I want an A and I will do my best to get an A in this class and every other class.
    • I think not graduating from college 15 years ago contributed the most to my current attitude. I know the mistakes I made then, how I dropped classes that I felt were too difficult without really trying and how that catapulted to dropping out entirely. Learning from those mistakes has helped me the most. Unfortunately I probably can not convey this properly to someone who is in school for the first time fresh out of high school as I would not have listened to myself or anyone else sharing their experience 15 years ago. Sometimes experience can not be expressed to people with inexperience conjoined with an unwillingness to listen.
  3. Tips
    • Believe in yourself. It may seem overwhelming and scary at first but with time, patience and practice confidence can be developed and cultivated.
    • Read Mindset: The New Psychology of Success as early as possible as it talks about the fixed vs. growth mindset. That will bring self-awareness to the student as to what type of mindset they currently have and if they feel it is a good or bad thing. If it's bad they will have time to change it which would be beneficial in this class. 
      • For the instructors, I would suggest letting the students write their first reading reflection on either a biography/autobiography or psychological/philosophical book. This will allow them more latitude and opportunity to read a book that would inspire a positive, thought-provoking mindset which could enable them to strive forward in the course and earn a better grade.
    • Have fun. It's like a roller coaster. Scary on the way up and then becomes exhilarating later on. Staying focused, determined and disciplined are critical and necessary for this and any course so you may as well have fun while you are doing it.

Embodiment of Tenacity
Down 3-1, the Cleveland Cavaliers became the first team ever to overcome this deficit to win the NBA Championship.
If that is not tenacity, I do not know what is.

Please provide insight to the poll below the comment box.
Thanks.

4 comments:

  1. Brian,

    Great insight and advice on how to be successful in this class. It seems from your experience that you were able to push through barriers that may have stopped others in their tracks, which has lead to you to complete your assignments in a timely fashion. Also, I think the picture you posted on the Cavs does say it all about tenacity with the ups and downs one has with this class.

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  2. Patrick,

    As they say, with age comes wisdom. I really hope I can provide insight to this class and others as I know a lot of the students are a lot younger and are going through what I went through previously. It is just a different outlook and perspective for me now. Tenacity has become a part of me in everything and I actually look forward to new tasks and assignments. I enjoy them.

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  3. Brian,

    I think it’s awesome that you got in the habit of completing the assignments well in advanced of the due dates. I struggle a lot with procrastination and I commend you for being so on top of everything. You deserve a lot of credit for actually coming back to finish your degree, something that a lot of people who drop out never do. You seem to have a great attitude and approach to this class as well as school in general, and I think having that same approach to life and work after you graduate will lead you to great success. Keep up the fantastic work!

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  4. I really like that you have read some of these books ahead of schedule. All too many of my friends put off assignments until the last minute. This proactive approach lets you have an easier time in the class, and overall get a better grade. Keep up the great work and thanks for the informative post. New students would be wise to take your advice!

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